12.14.2009

Newborn Survival Kit

If you were stranded on a desolate island with a newborn baby, what 5 things would you want?  Granted, my first instinct would be 1) a nanny, 2) a boat, 3) a great mattress, 4) ear plugs, and 5) a sleeping pill.  I’d send the nanny and the baby in the boat to find civilization, and then take the most wonderful amazing nap I’ve had in a LONG time.

But, this is reality.  What kind of desolate island has a nanny?

So, here are a few items in my Newborn Survival Kit.

1) White Noise Machine.  Apparently the womb is about as loud as a vacuum cleaner.  Don’t ask me, I don’t remember.  But it seems that baby’s like loud steady noise.  My kids spent their early months in the master bath because of the fact there was a loud exhaust fan, but then I got a white noise machine and suddenly I found freedom.  Now I can take white noise with me where ever I go.  Grandma’s house? Check.  Napping at the babysitters? Check.

2) Baby Carriers.  My daughter liked to be held.  A LOT. Twenty-three hours a day might be an understatement.  But, of course, there were things that I needed to get done, and as skilled as I was at doing things one-handed, it really was difficult to be productive.  Then I found slings, wraps, and carriers, and suddenly I could carry her snuggled up against me, and still have two hands to do things.  And, even better, my husband couldn’t use the excuse, “I have to study!” to get out of toting her around.  Aww! Who doesn’t want an adorable study buddy?

Studying

3) Nursing/Feeding Pillows.  Because, honestly, I fell asleep a lot during those middle of the night feedings and this probably saved my kids from falling to the floor. (WARNING: I do not condone falling asleep while feeding an infant during the middle of the night. With my next kid I promise to try harder.)

4) Swaddling Blankets. I’ve heard a lot of moms tell me that their babies really dislike being swaddled, but I’ve yet to meet an infant in real life who didn’t like the security of being unable to move their arms.  They can’t control them.  I can’t imagine I’d enjoy being smacked in the face by my own hands.  They may fight the swaddle at first, but trust me, they all give in!

5) Suckies, Loveys, and Mobiles.  Basically anything that will give your baby a sign that it is sleep time.  My daughter never took a pacifier.  I thought it was great because we wouldn’t have to break her of the habit. Oh, boy! I wish she had.  It would have really helped her sleep.  She also never had a lovey.  She never had anything to cuddle in the middle of the night.  She also didn’t ever have any music or mobile to signal it was bed time.  In my experience, babies need signs that it is time to go to bed (that’s why a bedtime routine is always stressed in infant sleep books.)  Pop my son’s binkie in his mouth, hand him his blue stuffed elephant, and turn on the music mobile, and you can tell that he knows it is time to sleep.  Of course it took some training, but now he has resigned himself to his fate.

So, there you have it.  Those are my top 5 survival tools.  What are yours?

4 comments:

Jessica Taufer said...

My top five? Let's see, sugar, ice cream, chocolate, cookies, and brownies. haha.

I actually think you hit the nail on the head will all five recommendations. Can I use this entry in the Utah Baby Guide?

The Freestyle Mom said...

I never could have guessed that's what you'd have picked. I was assuming brussel sprouts.

And sure you can use it. Will there be a way for people to see that it came from my blog? I can use all the traffic I can get (I think I'm up to like 3 visitors a month -- one of which is mom, and number 2 and 3 are probably dad and Josh!)

Jessica Taufer said...

Sorry, I just saw that you replied (I was looking for it to email me when you replied)... Sweet! I will link to your blog! I LOVE your writing style and sprinklings of sarcastic humor.

Bright Eyes (Shelley) said...

I am a HUGE fan of the Sleepy Wrap. I could not survive Liberty without it. A carrier (even though she hated anything other than the wrap) is a must! I never really liked the boppy thing, had two once. A hair dryer makes a baby sleep HOURS! But then it isn't the best for safety reasons. ;) All of my babies have been tummy sleepers so they have had no problems knowing when it was bed time. ;)

I'm glad I am REALLY done now.

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